It’s 2019 bitchez, and the cheaters are running rampant! It’s more out of the ordinary now to find a man that doesn’t cheat versus a man that does… Sad, but true. You just cannot live in denial, ladies!
As a woman who has been cheated on by multiple men, I’ve noticed that their patterns are eerily similar… I also have eyewitness reports from my girl friends who have been cheated on by their men, too… AND I’ve heard many stories – more than I’d like to admit – from my guy friends who cheated on the girlfriends… What can I say, I have a lot of fuckboys in my life shrugs. But let’s just put it this way: I am very well adverse in this subject matter.
THIS WORLD IS A DARK PLACE, PEOPLE!!! But hey, better to be aware than to be naive about it…
So, without further ado, here are THE TELL-TALE SIGNS YOUR MAN IS CHEATING ON YOU:
He always places his phone face down
Because he doesn’t want all his hoes’ messages popping up on his lock screen
He takes his phone with him everywhere – even to the bathroom and shower
If your man is taking your phone with him when he takes an effing shower, then you have a BIG problem, sis. Definitely trying to hide something…
He won’t answer your FaceTime calls
Because he doesn’t want you to see where he is/who he’s with – surprise! It’s another hoe
He stops responding for strange durations of time
Because he’s getting freaky with the girl next door
He gets defensive over the smallest questions
Men ALWAYS get SUPER defensive when they’re in the wrong – they ALWAYS feel the need to overcompensate. This is a HUGE RED FLAG. If he really didn’t do anything wrong, he will remain calm. If he IS in the wrong, well, he will be DEFENSIVE AF
He swipes up to close his tabs on his phone as soon as you walk over
He doesn’t want you to see who he’s messaging/looking at
He stops initiating sex as much
Because he’s already gotten his d*ck wet with someone else
He acts distant
He starts creating distance between you two to make him feel less like a piece of sh*t for his actions. Self-sabotage
He veers from normal patterns
Men are CREATURES OF HABIT!!! If he’s veering from the norm, something def isn’t right
He always gets notifications on snapchat
Snapchat is every girl’s worst enemy. Pretty sure the guys who developed the app were cheaters themselves, smh. Harder to catch a cheater when the messages he is sending disappear…
He stops posting you on his social media
Or maybe he never did to start with… Either way, he doesn’t want you to ruin his game
PSA:
A man could be displaying all these qualities and still NOT be cheating, but let’s be honest, ladies: odds are, he is. STAY WOKE, SIS!!!
And Remember:
CHICKS BEFORE D*CKS!!! If you know a man is cheating, notify the girlfriend ASAP. US WOMEN GOT TO STICK TOGETHER!
Xx