Ahh, life. Ain’t it something? Well, I’m about to drop some life lessons on all y’all.
If a guy is going to cheat, he’s going to cheat
Sorry sis, that’s life. I’ve had all my guy friends tell me this and I’m going to tell all of you: if a guy is going to cheat, he’s going to cheat, and there is NOTHING you can do about it. So don’t bother getting paranoid over something you can’t control. Facts.
Your mental and physical health are more important than anything else
WHY DON’T PEOPLE UNDERSTAND THIS?! Your health and well-being should ALWAYS, I repeat, ALWAYS come first. If your health isn’t in check, then nothing else in your life can be.
It’s better to be alone than with someone who doesn’t love you
Facts. Learn to love yourself and you won’t need anyone else. If a person isn’t ADDING VALUE to your life, you don’t need them in it. Check out my other blog posts Love Yourself First and I Tried Going Celibate.
Not everyone has your best interest in mind
This took me a while to learn because I tend to see the best in people. But, not everyone has your best interest in mind. So watch your effing back and be careful with whom you trust.
You are the controller of your life, if you don’t like something, change it
YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR OWN LIFE!!! Yep, YOU ARE! It doesn’t matter how old or how young you are, if you don’t like something in your life, effing CHANGE IT! Not happy with your significant other? Break up. Not happy with your job? Quit. Not happy where you live? Move. IT’S THAT EASY!
Don’t spend money you don’t have!
Haaaaa. Don’t do it. Or you’ll end up in debt. If you want to spend more, make more money. Do NOT, I repeat, DO NOT put it on your credit card.
Travel – you’ll learn more than any book could ever teach you
Americans travel less than any other first world country. It’s sad, really. The world is beautiful and HUGE – why not go explore it?! You’ll learn more from traveling than anything else.
The world is cruel, but don’t let it make you a cruel person
The world is beautiful, but it’s still a shitty place filled with shitty people. Hate to break it to you. But just because the world is cruel, don’t let it make you a cruel person. Be the effing light on a cloudy day
Say what you mean, people can’t read your mind
PEOPLE AREN’T MIND READERS! THEY CAN’T READ YOUR MIND! It’s 2019, if you feel or think something, JUST SAY IT!
You can’t change someone
I DON’T KNOW WHY PEOPLE CAN’T JUST ACCEPT THIS! YOU CAN’T CHANGE OTHER PEOPLE! Either accept that person for who they are or MOVE THE EFF ON!